FistingEnthusiast

My fiancée is a big fan of my kilts

She has sent this to a few people she knows who appreciate a bloke who is not afraid to wear a skirt

Always nice to have a fan!

A healthy awareness of what it’s actually looking for, and an understanding that limits of what people are comfortable with apply equally to the top and the bottom

Yes

I’m perfectly happy with my dick, and so is my fiancée

That’s all I care about

Plenty of people have seen it, and the closest thing I’ve had to negativity is people being horrified by my piercing or my fucked-up “performance art”

Go and clean your fucking room

I regret ruining this perfect vag for you

It’s easy

I take pictures and videos, and then I post them

Don’t over think it

Having said that, be very careful about being identifiable

I know from personal experience just what can happen

I’ve always enjoyed giving. I’ve been lucky enough to have a few partners who really love it

More recently I’ve been experimenting with receiving

I’ve enjoyed being rimmed, but until relatively recently I hadn’t ever received anything penetrative

I jumped in the deep end a little while ago and my fiancée fisted me. It was fairly successful for a first attempt!

I’ve experimented solo a bit, as the videos I post show, but it’s still not something that really lights my fire. I have to be in a specific mindset and mood to enjoy it

Hold them gently, but that’s about it for me

And don’t suck them. That just hurts

My go to is the stuff that my fiancée and I have made together or the wonderful videos she sends me (we’re long-distance at the moment)

Obviously, I’m not showing anything with our faces, but this is a happy memory

Events differ in their vibe, but it’s surprisingly easy to just strike up a conversation with people, a well-run event will have people keeping an eye on things and doing vibe checks

What you fantasise about doesn’t define your sexuality

I’ve fulfilled many fantasies, others will remain (for one reason or another) in the realm of fantasy

Every single time it has lived up to expectations, but that’s probably because I am of an age where I didn’t have my first introduction to sex through unrealistic porn

Remember that once something is done, it can’t be undone, and keep yourself safe. Physically and emotionally.

Other than that, go forth and enjoy!

Life’s short

A bum feels completely different to a vagina

If you take your forefinger and thumb and grip a finger tightly, then move it back and forth, that’s a bum

Now do the same with a whole-handed grip

Squeezing is different from woman to woman. I’ve had some crazy tight partners (not helped by my dick, admittedly) and partners who I could simultaneously fist and fuck in their pussy

They all felt good. If anything, the very tight partners were a problem because things were either uncomfortable for me, for them (although I know a few masochists who love it) or both

Mouths are a whole other ball-game

I had a partner who had boasted of her prowess, but she was awful. Very toothy and her enthusiasm didn’t make up for poor technique

I’ve also had others who damned near sucked the soul out of my body

My piercing is a problem too, it is usually comes out as soon as things get steamy, apart from the occasional PIV only session, and even then, it’s usually a bit too intense for us both if things go on for long

I like switching things up during sex too, so it’s pretty common for my fiancée and I to enjoy a variety of things during a single session, so I will often be fucking her after fisting her

It doesn’t really make any difference. What makes the difference is how aroused she is (pretty much an essential prerequisite for fisting!)

I hope this helps!

Practice

I know that it sounds like I’m being silly, but take your time to pay attention to what your body is doing, what it responds to etc.

You can then start to control it a bit more

It’s not difficult to do, but don’t overdo it

I have basically conditioned myself not to cum until my woman has. Occasionally she does something that trips my switch quickly, but it’s very rare

It may sound great (and it mostly is) but when she wants it to be all about me, I have a hard time really relaxing into it

I get close with a good glass of wine…

I’d like it to be combination of things, so it would be very deliberate

I’d like it to happen when my fiancée gives me a certain look, with a certain phrase, and touches me in a certain way

Pussy to arse is absolutely fine

Basically, arse is the final stop unless there’s some thorough washing first

When she mouths off, ask her what she’s expecting to happen next

It may open a door for her to ask you for something, if she goes quiet, you have the options of either telling you what you’ll do, or saying something like “I thought so”

As with all things, there are a few options, you can move into the space, you can withdraw and let them fall, you can brush it aside and move how you choose, you can meet them head-on

You can remain silent, describe what you plan to do, gag her, there are so many options

Brats take work, that’s part of the dynamic!

They push us

Well, despite the name, I enjoy quite a few things

I’m a pleasure-Dom first and foremost

Like you, I can’t get into the feet thing. It doesn’t repulse me, but I just don’t get it

I’ve made some sounding-adjacent content, but it’s performative rather than actually something that gets me off. And the sillier things are definitely just for a laugh, because I’m concentrating on not damaging myself!

With my fiancée, her abs contract intensely when she cums

It’s usually when her abs can’t take any more that she taps out

I’m resilient

I’ve had things fall apart on me a few times now, and I’ve managed to rebuild my life and end up in a good place

I’m a few months into doing it all again, and it’s getting there. A hell of a lot of work and grief, but I’m still kicking, and life is getting back on track

I’d just grab a beer, sit down somewhere and wait for them to wonder what’s happening