A nice jock strap/cup underwear.

Tastes different based on the guy. Reminds me of undercooked egg whites in both texture and taste mostly, which I like most of the time.

Unfortunately, there are some people who are specifically into people not being okay with things. Think about how often porn depicts coercive scenarios. Not even full on rape, but pressuring (usually women) into doing acts that they specifically don’t want to do.

I had a very upsetting encounter the other night along those lines.

This isn’t necessarily an answer to your question but -

If someone says they don’t like swallowing/don’t want you to cum in their mouth, regardless of the reasoning, you shouldn’t try to “logic” them into complying with it. Lots of people have preferences, and the least sexy thing you can do is try to persuade someone past a hard no.

I like swallowing, but if I didn’t want to and someone asked me this during the act, it would be a guarantee that I would never hook up with them again.

Yeah, he was comparing his other partner (who he replaced me with) by calling them a “doe pussy.” I did take it as an insult at the time. He was extremely abusive and destroyed any sense of self esteem I had lol

My ex said he read the Kama sutra and I had an “elephant pussy.” No idea what the fuck that meant.

Idk a dick is a dick.

Yeah lol.

This is a NSFW instance, not a “straight dudes only” instance.

What’s personally annoying is that the front page is almost always the same picture of a woman crossposted to any tangentially related sub. I’m for diversity.

Making out. I didn’t even really like it when I was partnered.

Sex is very disconnected from intimacy. I’m not aromantic but sex is not romantic. Sex is me being degraded and used. I submit as an object, the romance might be being cuddled and praised afterwards.

It’s that feeling of anticipation that really cinches it. I hear the door open, I’m in position and usually dripping, then he mounts me. There’s that release of tension as my walls give way.

I will sometimes wake up to find they were messaging long after we last talked, almost as if they decided to flake, but wanted it to appear as if I did.

I hate this so much.

My kink is shooting for a “high score” - I like having multiple partners in a night. It’s so unbelievably frustrating when they do this, especially when they hit me up again hours later, because I’ve often declined someone who probably wouldn’t have flaked.

We’re all adults here, if you aren’t coming then just say it. (Barring those safety situations where it seems like the guy might get aggressive)

I don’t think I ever come across as aggressive (at least when it comes to sex). I’m offering something, if it’s wanted then come and take it.

Vagina nerve endings are mostly around two to three inches deep, beyond that not too much feelings.

5.8” is more than sufficient. Girth matters more, and your girth is fine too.

I’ve taken enough cocks to have a statistically significant sample size, and you are perfectly average, even slightly larger than average. Even as someone who is a little bit of “size queen” - that is tbh mostly masochism on my end, and your cock would be totally fine to most vaginas.

Women in general aren’t super into size anyway. A vagina doesn’t typically cum from penetration, just clitoral stimulation.

Women tend to be more “psychological” in their pleasure too. I’ve noticed a huge difference in what feels good when I’m late on my t shot tbh

Sex is submission for me. They are the same act. If I am being penetrated, in that moment, I belong to the person using me. My brain shuts off. Things like having my body gripped and moved around help, being spanked or came on or covered with graffiti go with that, but when I am being fucked, I am an object that belongs to all cocks.

I can’t even pretend to be dominant. I don’t give a shit about my own orgasm. Desire is to be underneath someone who is using me to make their body feel good.

There’s some early exploratory research that suggests trans men on testosterone might develop some prostate cells. I did have a guy that could make me cum regularly from anal, and I don’t really cum from vaginal. Clearly I need to do further research and let more guys use my ass.

I take dick from trans women and nonbinary people, wanted to include them too.

I’m a gay trans man. I have a vagina, and I mostly do vaginal sex.

My relationships have been gay relationships, because we were both men and I am unambiguously read as male in public.

But I also do frequently have casual sex. There are a lot of gay men who do find relationships with trans men specifically to be erotic. There are bisexual men who don’t really care what they are topping. There are straight men who just want to fuck a vagina. There are insecure DL men who feel that a trans man is a safe outing.

Being attracted to a trans women as a straight guy is normal. You are expressing attraction to a woman. I’ve known trans women in relationships with 100% straight guys.

The larger reality here is that labels are shorthands, not laws. As a cis straight man, you have been told all of your life that anything outside of being attracted to a certain type of cis women is expected of you, that any non conformance with that script is “gay” and stigmatized.

You can have a sexual encounter or relationship with a trans woman and consider yourself 100% heterosexual if that’s important to you, because you are a man having sex with a woman. Hell - you can even experiment with a cis dude and consider yourself straight - there are piles and piles of dudes flipping through all kinds of apps right now just trying to get their dick sucked by any willing warm mouth.

Sexuality is spectrum and it changes across your life. You don’t have to feel worried about that, there’s nothing wrong with you.

Does it still feel good at the end of a the train? Like is it a bad different or a neutral difference? Service is my kink, so I want to ensure that guys have the best experience. The degradation of that “hot dog down a hallway” description is pretty fun, but I want to make sure that I still have a nice grip.

Lubrication is a special talent of mine. I haven’t really run out except for when I setup 30ish guys for my birthday.

I’m kinda reassured with how common it is to not cum from/be into oral. I have TMJ so I don’t really suck a lot of cocks. I get asked and like it sometimes, but it hurts after a bit :(

Also appreciate that the experience is probably the same after I’ve been used, always been worried that the last guy in a train is missing out. I guess it is a muscle, so maybe working it out makes it tighter long term.

I talked to a guy online once about a similar set up - I’m honestly considering taking a furniture making class to make my dreams come true there. Or convincing one of my regulars to make one for me.

Hard choking is something I’ve done - I got scared when my ex choked someone else unconscious on accident and almost killed them, so I’m a little reluctant to go for it now. It does feel so amazing though - the only time I’ve ever came from penetration was being strangled and beat on a fucking machine. I know that I would totally let a guy off me in the moment because it’s like nothing else 😅

Getting fucked strapped down to a guillotine (with a line of guys especially) or with a gun to my head.

Snuff is really difficult for people to understand. I like being alive, but the idea that a guy could treat me as completely disposable is exhilarating. I’m fairly extreme on the masochism/submissive side of things, the challenge is always finding guys who are safe with those extreme kinks.

I’ve got a regular I had a really great time with recently - put a belt around my neck before he walked in, let him talk about how far he could go (while not actually pulling hard - breath play is always dangerous…)

Being passed around at a party and thrown into a dumpster afterwords is another of those “probably impossible” fantasies.

Do you think someone going by the name “freeusething” has a healthy relationship with their mother lol