Sounds really awesome! 😵😱

I do enjoy penetration a lot!

How would you compare it to a hand held dildo? Other than the obvious comfort of not having to do a hand workout every time 😵

Awesome for you!

I always wondered if these things are worth it, they seem fun but my personal experience is that sex toys tend to be just okay and never amazing, so I never invested in a really pricey one.

Can you share your experience with it?

P. S That is one of those electric fucking machines, right?

Oh, never done that but sounds fine. Kind of a weird way to phrase it though 🤣

Ummm, more context?

That is surprisingly hot! Maybe I should try that 🤔

What do you enjoy most about it?

Just knowing that it is a safe space and talking. Once we reached a point where neither of us felt like the other one would judge, even if we say something very extreme, we just talked and we were both open to try the things that the other wanted at least once.

So not judging or laughing at eachother and just communicating.

I had past relationships that I wasn’t ready yet to not judge myself and they never knew my deepest kinks. But with my current partner I am fully open and it’s nice. I got to try fantasies that I never thought I’d get to.

No no, not a pet. I really don’t like extreme dom/sub stuff. I like being a sub but probably to a pretty vanilla extent.

Not sure that would fit my style 😅 I can initiate but I don’t love leading or going solo. Plus I usually prefer women and at least in my non-orgy experience the natrual ratio of men to women approaching me is like 10:1 😅

Honestly, being a vibe checker sounds like a nicer way to ease into this world before actually participating, I wonder if that is possible 🤔

Thanks! Actually kind of scared about a guy getting pushy or not asking before doing, but I did my best to find a place that I believe to be safe.

I heard this advice a lot, but like… How can I be so casual in that scenario? 😅 obviously I would never touch or invade someones personal space without verbal consent.

I guess I just need to practice in my head coming to someone mid sex and just going “Hi, may I join?” 😅

I would be horrified if someone commented on my pubes, maybe only if it’s an extremely positive comment, definitely not if they called me bro 🤣