Do you love him? Do you have a healthy sexual relationship? Does he love you? I haven’t even been able to see your posts because the app I’m using isn’t able to connect to some external files. But I do have experience with a number of very close friends of mine who have gone through something similar to this.
It’s unlikely that more sexual experience will bring you closer together. It’s not impossible, there are some swinger couples that continue to do that for many years and it works for them… But most couples, it leads to broken trust.
One friend of mine, he had suggested the same thing for his wife. She did it. And then she continueded to do it and did it without him. He asked for it because he wanted more sexual experiences, he wasn’t satisfied with just being with his wife. In the end she wasn’t satisfied with him. It broke both of them pretty terribly.
What do you think his motivation is for asking you to do this? Is he pimping you out hoping to make money from your online activities? Does he just want to have sex with a bunch of other women and wants to open the door to an open relationship? What is your motivation? Do you hope to still have intimacy with your husband in 10 years?
I literally know nothing about you except the text of this specific post. But I’d say, unless you’re looking for a divorce or sleeping with whoever you want and marriage doesn’t matter, I’d say don’t do it.
Do you love him? Do you have a healthy sexual relationship? Does he love you? I haven’t even been able to see your posts because the app I’m using isn’t able to connect to some external files. But I do have experience with a number of very close friends of mine who have gone through something similar to this.
It’s unlikely that more sexual experience will bring you closer together. It’s not impossible, there are some swinger couples that continue to do that for many years and it works for them… But most couples, it leads to broken trust.
One friend of mine, he had suggested the same thing for his wife. She did it. And then she continueded to do it and did it without him. He asked for it because he wanted more sexual experiences, he wasn’t satisfied with just being with his wife. In the end she wasn’t satisfied with him. It broke both of them pretty terribly.
What do you think his motivation is for asking you to do this? Is he pimping you out hoping to make money from your online activities? Does he just want to have sex with a bunch of other women and wants to open the door to an open relationship? What is your motivation? Do you hope to still have intimacy with your husband in 10 years?
I literally know nothing about you except the text of this specific post. But I’d say, unless you’re looking for a divorce or sleeping with whoever you want and marriage doesn’t matter, I’d say don’t do it.