For every woman that would overlook you for the size of your penis, which is totally in the middle of the bell curve and nothing to be discouraged about, there are 5 other women in the world that look just as good as they do and who would love to take a ride on your baloney pony.

I’m right about the same, a little longer, a little thinner, and I had crippling sexual anxiety for years because of it.

I learned the techniques for orgasm control and have frequently made love to women for over an hour at a time, multiple times a day until they tapped out on the regular because they couldn’t take any more orgasms for a while.

I’ve had twelve partners and only once was I unable to make my partner orgasm with penile stimulation alone, and she was on antidepressants that made it difficult for her to orgasm at all, but she still wanted to sleep with me because it was enjoyable and pleasurable for her.

I have been called a sex god by two separate women in my life.

And despite all of that I carried that inner worry that the size of my penis was simply not good enough and that there was nothing I could do about it.

Literally two weeks ago, it clicked in my head, and if you keep studying yourself and learning from yourself it will click with you, that is absolutely not about the size of your penis. Its about the passion, the intimacy, the self confidence, the drive, the connection, and the ability to read your partner and respond and react in ways to make the whole event more than just the hokey pokey.

Sure, some women will only be satisfied with big dicks. And that sucks.

Some women can’t even take our dicks due to things like vaginisimus and deep sexual and emotional scars.

But women have those same worries and concerns about their own bodies, wondering if the guy they’re talking to prefers bigger or smaller boobs or butts than they have, wondering if they are tight enough or if they smell good down there or if the bit of cellulite or various moles or whatever blemish they can amplify about themselves means they are unworthy of being loved.

And given that a woman who likes a guy will put up with an inordinate amount of bullshit from the guy, seeing our flaws as cute quirks and laughing at our bad jokes just because they like us and want to be liked by us, if you reach the point where you are sleeping with a woman and you are romantic, present, involved, and consistently able to make her cum and enjoy herself like clockwork, she’ll never hate you for your penis any more than you would hate her for having one boob smaller than the other or for having a large labia or any of the dozens of other things every woman finds to dislike about their own bodies.