Basically the title. Just curious how your experiences have been and what you like about it or get out of it personally. I’m thinking about seeing a prostitute. It’s been something that I found hot and exciting for a while and since I am now single again, I’m looking for some opinions or stories.

  • Alborlin@lemmy.world
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    12 days ago

    It’s quite exciting, I have been to clubs imwhere nmthere are number of pros. You get to see what you like and choose along with music, I never drink alcohol so that never affects my judgement, I can vary my tastes and have fun. Its exciting because it’s forbidden kind of thing. Also I don’t like to look up on website and contact them for services, it’s takes away excitement for me somehow. What I am looking for is good service from start to finish not just main thing.

  • TheGuineaLion@lemmynsfw.com
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    11 days ago

    My friend convinced me to go to prostitute, because I was too desperate looking for a girlfriend. However, I was looking for the romantic side of relationship, not really for sex, so it didn’t help me in the end.

    Either way, I lost my virginity to a prostitute, who didn’t look like on the website and didn’t enjoy it at all. I was so dissatisfied that… I went to another one the next day lol.

    It was a complete opposite experience. We had a little talk before and after sex. She said that she likes doing what she does and had a client almost every day and it showed. She had a lot of hobbies, was my type and I kinda fell in love… which definitely did not help, haha.

    Anyway, it seems that most prostitutes are more like the first one, where they couldn’t find a better job so they do what they do. I don’t know how people can find such encounters enjoyable, but whatever.

  • nesc@lemmy.cafe
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    12 days ago

    Experience was between below average and poor due to other party being as uninterested and bored as humanly possible while acting poorly. Reasons were somewhat similar to your own and extreme mental stress. Honestly the best part was just hanging out a bit after and drinking tea/chatting about things.

  • hydmonk@lemmynsfw.com
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    11 days ago

    My experiences with sex workers have been wide and varied, much like sexual encounters with non professionals. It ranges from almost the worst sex I’ve ever had (that dubious honour goes to a non sex worker), up to the very best sex I’ve ever had.

    I have a regular that I see as often as I can because she is without a doubt, the best at what she does.

    In summary, sex workers are people, and as such some are great, some are bad, and most are somewhere in between.

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    9 days ago

    If you are seriously considering one, then a few things to keep in mind:

    • Don’t go to a cheap place
    • Know what kind of experience you want (romantic, fwb, roleplay, bdsm etc)
    • Relax and have fun!