aguyinheat

if this is a serious question and not fap material, this is a conversation you need to have with the others involved lmao

otherwise someone’s gonna end up unhappy with how things go, and it very well could be you

yeah, for sure… big tits in sweaters get me turned on something awful. or sheer clothing? and ofc bras/bikinis/etc

agreed about there getting less cfnm porn nowadays. a lot of stuff has homogenized

i can’t speak for all vulva’d people, but… i feel like that’s mostly a porn thing.

the amount of times i licked my hand before masturbating: once, to see if it was good. it wasn’t (and i find it kind of gross. no offense to ppl who are into it tho). and i masturbate a lot

pre-transition, getting it wet wasn’t even that hard. why would i use spit for that lmao. i mean some people might have that issue, right, but i’d still rather just use lube if that were the case

i think it’s just supposed to be hot for whatever reason

so my answer to this is pretty layered bc i’m a trans guy and the sensation for both has changed since starting testosterone

pre-transition, i liked anal but it was a lot of trouble for the reward and vaginal was super easy / pleasurable all the time (i was lucky and can orgasm from vaginal penetration, it used to be how i preferred to get off)

post-transition, anal is still a ton of work to prep for (esp given i consistently have gut issues)… but it’s a WAY more pleasurable experience. i tend to re-discover it maybe twice a year. i’m not exactly sure what’s caused it to become so much more intense (seriously, i get super shaky and wobbly nowadays), maybe testosterone made the nerves grow there more? i dunno

but also, post transition, vaginal is a lot more difficult (dry / sensitive) and i have to work pretty hard on getting warm enough to enjoy myself. i really have to be in the mood and have a lot of time on my hands and… well, sometimes it’s hard to come by