German language has an informal word for sexual intercourse that could also apply here: “vögeln”, literally “birding” (Vogel is bird, vögeln is the correspondent verb). As French and German share quite a lot of terminology maybe there’s a connection.
The painter wanted to “bird” her…
Is wanking off your partner really faster than fucking? Or is this question about the ordeal piv sex puts on the woman? Genuinely curious.