Why do you think gay people are weirdos?

I’ve read lesbians sometimes don’t find out they are lesbian until they are in their twenties.

How is that even possible? Have they never felt arousal until then? Have they not seen girls undressing in the locker rooms? Have they not seen sexy music videos? And many more questions.

At 12 I (m) was masturbating to music videos of Beyonce ans Christina Aguilera, and just seeing a woman in a short skirt can make me breathless for a second. The concept of not having found one’s sexuality until adulthood is a hard one for me to grasp.

What? You guys lick / spit to masturbate? I just use my hand, nothing else.