Interested in any/all perspectives, how are the sensations different or similar, do you have a preference and why, is one or the other more erotic to think about, out of 10, how would you rank the best vaginal vs the best anal?
And if you have a penis and experience penetrating both, definitely answer the same questions!
Reason I ask is I have a penis and find vaginal penetration very hot (both thinking about it and doing it lol), and I’m curious what it feels like, but the closest I’ll get to experiencing it myself is either in dreams or however similar anal penetration is. So I wanted to see what y’all thought 😊
so my answer to this is pretty layered bc i’m a trans guy and the sensation for both has changed since starting testosterone
pre-transition, i liked anal but it was a lot of trouble for the reward and vaginal was super easy / pleasurable all the time (i was lucky and can orgasm from vaginal penetration, it used to be how i preferred to get off)
post-transition, anal is still a ton of work to prep for (esp given i consistently have gut issues)… but it’s a WAY more pleasurable experience. i tend to re-discover it maybe twice a year. i’m not exactly sure what’s caused it to become so much more intense (seriously, i get super shaky and wobbly nowadays), maybe testosterone made the nerves grow there more? i dunno
but also, post transition, vaginal is a lot more difficult (dry / sensitive) and i have to work pretty hard on getting warm enough to enjoy myself. i really have to be in the mood and have a lot of time on my hands and… well, sometimes it’s hard to come by
They’re both very different sensations. Vaginal is easiest and I agree with RB, missionary is the best. With the right angle it’s a 10/10 orgasm. Plus you get to see your partner’s face and reactions which is always enjoyable.
Anal takes work and time, but once he’s actually in it does feel good, the orgasm is different but with toys for additional stimulation it’s a 7/10 and a much different intensity.
Best vaginal penetration 10/10 - face to face angled so there is some stimulation of vulva too, that is the most physically pleasurable way to get off.
Best anal is just not hurting, maybe 5, not bad not great, it’s only good if the guy likes it, and isn’t too big - I had a partner hung long but not thick, it felt pretty good with him but:
Both? One guy in ass and one in vagina? So good. It does add to the pleasure in that situation, certainly. Like 11/10. But the one in the ass kind of still not the more active.
ETA: I also really like when guys prefer vaginal, like you do. Even if they like both, even if they are bi, if they get off easiest in the pussy and prefer it that is the hottest feeling.
This is not easy to describe.
Anal feels more full, which I like, but the pleasure is not as good, and the longer it goes on, the more quickly the pleasure dies off. Not to mention the preparation, the time, and so on.
I like Anal, but really, if I got it once for every 20 times I get vaginal I am satisfied.
DP, one in both, just amplified everything. The good and the bad.
Positions are awkward, it takes time, but the full feeling is even better, and the pleasure of both holes is even better.
If Oral is 10/10, Vaginal is 8/10, Anal is 5/10, and DP is 11/10. But DP with toys is nowhere near the same, in fact I don’t like it.My husband says Anal is so hard to get in, and then its like 1 tight ring, whereas Vaginal has stuff everywhere going on. He likes both, but prefers Vaginal. Those “everything going on” descriptions vs 1 ring, is kind of the same for me, there is just so much more being pleasured with Vaginal.
As for you receiving Anal, the real penis feels so different, and so much better than toys, I do recommend trying the real thing at least once!
