• AnonTerrorPuffin@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    Don’t ask for or expect more, treat this as a one time growing experience and be grateful for that.

    Try to predefine boundaries so that you know what both partners are comfortable with, what they do and don’t want from you , and what they do and don’t want from each other.

    Everyone has different kinks and levels of comfort being open honest and upfront about those helps make it a good experience for everyone.

    Communication is key Make sure that everyone is comfortable asking for what they want and saying what they don’t want at any point throughout the night.